If grief were a group project, ISFJs would be the ones holding the whole thing together while everyone else falls apart. They’d be comforting the criers, refilling the snack table, proofreading the eulogy, and only later—like, three months later—realizing they never stopped to breathe. ISFJs are emotional supporters by instinct. When life gets messy, they…
Grief has a way of breaking down every system we build to keep life predictable. It doesn’t care how prepared you are, how organized your files are, or how well you handled the last crisis. It just hits, quietly at first, then all at once, until your tried-and-true coping strategies start to feel useless. A…
Do you ever feel like your normally steady, dependable self suddenly turns into someone you barely recognize when stress piles on? Maybe you usually keep everything running smoothly, but then, under pressure, it’s like something in you flips. That strange, out-of-character version of you? That might be “grip stress.” Not sure what your personality type…
Let’s be honest: INFPs are walking paradoxes. They want to be known, but not too known. They want to express themselves, but only if everyone in the room signs an unspoken emotional NDA. They want connection, but also solitude, but also someone who will gently follow them into the depths of their internal monologue without…
Let’s talk about something that makes your skin crawl just thinking about it: saying “no” to someone you care about. Or to anyone, really. Because what if they think you’re selfish? Or cold? Or—God forbid—rude? Cue the anxiety spiral. Cue the “I’ll just squeeze it in” pep talk. Cue the resentment hangover three days later…
