The Enneagram 4 – The Individualist

The Individualist (Enneagram 4) is an intense and creative artist, who works with tangible objects or intangible ideas to find meaning and discovery in themselves and in nature. Fours believe in creation over consumption, and will put up a fight against anyone who tries to convince them otherwise. They experiment with different ideologies, philosophies, and modalities to form a meaningful mรฉlange of living.

Whimsical and free-spirited, Fours march to the beat of their own drums and passionately follow their deeply-held inner values. They believe in writing their own life stories and trekking down paths alone. While this is easier said than done, Fours typically put up with a lot of fear instilled from teachers, peers, or authority figures from a young ageโ€”who tell them to take the โ€œsafeโ€ route and squash their dreams.

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Sensitive and attuned to peak experiences, Fours can feel like aimless wanderers, searching for the meaning behind their existence, especially during adolescence. They find great joy when theyโ€™re able to tap into their โ€œflowโ€ stateโ€”when time melts away and hours feel like minutes. By late adulthood, Fours typically gain a more holistic sense of their true identity and are able to find their place in (or out of) society.

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A Quick Overview of the Four:

  • Part of the Heart Triad (along with Enneatypes Two and Three)
  • Can have a Three or Five wing: 4w3 or 4w5
  • Nicknamed โ€˜The Individualistโ€™
  • Ego Fixation: Melancholy
  • Vice: Envy
  • Virtue: Equanimity
  • Integrates into the One (The Perfectionist) under growth
  • Disintegrations into the Two (The Helper) under stress
  • Basic Fear: To float through life without a true identity or sense of purpose
  • Basic Desire: To be wholly unique, appreciated, and valued

Values are the core beliefs that make up the most important aspects of life. They have a strong influence over important decisions, especially during critical times, when standing between a fork in the road.

Common Values of the Enneagram 4:

  • Authenticity
  • Self-Discovery
  • Beauty
  • Meaning
  • โ€œTrue Loveโ€

The Enneagram model of personality identifies three distinct levels of health for each type: healthy, normal, and unhealthy.

Under healthy levels of growth, Fours integrate in the direction of the One, and become more socially aware, responsible, and emotionally resilient. They possess an uncanny ability to intertwine complex topics dealing with morality with different art forms: songs, scripts, films, paintings, sculptures, comics, and the like.

The once shattered pieces of past hopes and dreams get a second go at it when Fours reel in the positive qualities of the One. When this happens, they learn how to boldly take a stand for the greater good. They can become compassionate activists for a cause they believe in. They grow by seeing and appreciating the individuality in each person, without scrambling to be different.

At normal levels, Fours take extreme care to present a very unique image to the world, to prove how unique or special they are.  Driven to find their identity, their primary concern is to be different from others, no matter what it takes. This may take the form of โ€œtrying onโ€ different styles, looks, and even mannerisms to stand out.

In relationshipsโ€”platonic or romanticโ€”Fours have an overwhelming need to be appreciated for who they are, free from judgement and criticism. They enjoy (and crave) deep conversations about the universality of the human condition, meaning(s) of life (or lack thereof), and every grand theory of the universe in-between. They can be deeply insightful and sensitive.

Under unhealthy levels of stress, Fours disintegrate in the direction of the Two, and become more needy, tied to emotional bonds, and prone to extreme mood swings. During this time, they often quit social platforms cold turkey in order to โ€œfind themselvesโ€ again.

When their idealism and rose-colored glasses shatter under (eventual) dire circumstances, Fours can fall into very morbid and hysterical mindsets. They essentially โ€œdig their own gravesโ€ into brokenness by exacerbating their unstable states of mindโ€”through music, temporary flings, or use of fantasy-inducing substances.

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Type 4 Behavior at Healthy Levels of Maturity:

  • Socially aware and responsible
  • Emotionally stable and clear-headed
  • Has an organized, collected demeanor
  • Celebrates others instead of comparing
  • Creatively ingenious
  • Blends creativity with a realistic outlook
  • Develops insights into the emotional world of themselves and others

Type 4 Behavior at Average Levels of Maturity:

  • Constantly compares self to others
  • Tends to be dreamy and absent-minded
  • Unique and quirkyโ€” and will make it known
  • Has a flair for wordplay and artistic endeavours
  • Has moody and temperamental periods

Type 4 Behavior at Unhealthy Levels of Maturity:

  • Overly clingy and needy disposition – OR – rejecting of others, withdrawing into self.
  • Deployment of mind games to secure affection
  • Plays the victim
  • Gets lost in a fantasy world
  • Feels melancholy and listless
  • May engage in bizarre rituals to deflate self-esteem

When it comes to vocational preferences, Fours gravitate toward careers where they can use their creative gifts to express their emotions to the world and inspire others.

  • Designer
  • Artist
  • Author
  • Film Director
  • Illustrator
  • Activist
  • Counselor

During down time, Fours aim to release their emotional buildup through a creative outlet and effectively deal with their thoughts alone.

Common Hobbies:

  • Designing
  • Journaling
  • Acting
  • Photography
  • Thrift-store shopping
  • Reading
  • Listening to music and/or watching movies
  • Spending time with animals

Many well-known artists and authors throughout history were Fours in the Enneagram. Fours are often spotted working with different mediums to express their illuminating spectrum of emotions.

Quotes From Famous Enneagram 4 Types:

  • โ€œBeauty of whatever kind, in its supreme development, invariably excites the sensitive soul to tears.โ€ โ€“ Edgar Allen Poe
  • โ€œAn actor must interpret life, and in order to do so must be willing to accept all the experiences life has to offer.โ€ โ€“ James Dean
  • โ€œFor me, clothes are kind of character; I donโ€™t follow fashion or understand trends.โ€ โ€“ Meryl Streep
  • โ€œI wish they would only take me as I am.โ€ โ€“ Vincent Van Gogh

A Video of the Enneagram 4 Type:

Watch this video to sum up some of the most important characteristics of the Enneagram Four personality type.

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More Enneagram Type Four Resources:

https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-4
https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/type4
https://www.enneagramworldwide.com/types/the-romantic/
Lily Yuan, Personality Blogger

Lily Yuan is a personality psychology writer who has a knack for just missing the bus. She tests as INTP 5w4 and constantly questions her type. Learn more at www.lily-yuan.com or follow her on Twitter @LilyYuanWrites.

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12 Comments

  1. I can’t believe I haven’t looked at this before! This is 100% the way I am, as with the INFP Meyers-Briggs type. It makes me wonder, what correlation is there between the MBTI and Enneagram? How often is a person with a certain MBTI-type a certain Enneagram type as well (for instance, are INFPs normally typed as an Enneagram type 4 and vice versa)?
    I’ve always been an ambassador for the MBTI and didn’t really understand the Enneagram because it seems a little more complicated, and I’ve read that people often use either the one or the other. But now I see it would tell us so much more about ourselves and our peers if we combined our MBTI type with our Enneagram type!

    Loved reading this, thank you for making it so clear and easy to understand.

  2. Thank you, Susan, for what you wrote to the four regarding letting things go, not trying to get someone to like me, not being ashamed, and moving on with the potential I don’t even realize I have. This helped me a lot! <3 ๐Ÿ™‚

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