“There are two kinds of people: the ones who need to be told, and the ones who figure it out all by themselves.”
Tom Clancy – ESTJ
The ESTJs
are known for their hard-working, swift-thinking demeanor and their astounding ability to produce rapid results for their efforts. They are often referred to as The Guardians, and this is because they believe strongly in protecting laws, traditions, standards, and their beliefs. The ESTJ is a take-charge person, with a clear vision of how things should be and a knack for leadership and organization. ESTJs believe in responsibility, following through on their commitments, being moral citizens, and being competent in their careers and duties. The ESTJ has masterful use of Extraverted Thinking (Te) which gives them the ability to form logical plans and processes for accomplishing tasks, and also making sure these tasks are completed in a timely manner. They think through things objectively and logically, and try to keep their feelings and emotions outside of their decision-making process. ESTJs also have well-developed Introverted Sensing (Si), which gives them a keen eye for detail and a strong memory of historical information. ESTJs can quickly recollect past information and components, and see if things in the present match up or if there are any discrepancies.
You’ll find a wide variety of ESTJs in numerous careers ranging from counseling to politics to communications; Dr. Phil, Condoleezza Rice, Michelle Obama, Sonia Sotomayor, and Billy Graham are all ESTJs.
Attack on Titan is by far my favorite anime to watch. Passionate, heart-wrenching, thought-provoking, and filled with action, this show ticks every box of what I’m looking for in a TV series. Though I’m still waiting for new episodes of Season 4, I’ve taken the time to mentally sort through the personalities of the characters….
Have you ever heard the word “looping” thrown around and wondered what it meant? In the type community, looping is an instance where someone veers back and forth between the dominant and tertiary functions in their mental function stack. Here’s a picture to help clarify. We’re using the INTJ as an example, but we’ll be…
Today we’re going to explore some of the things that create a sense of joy and fulfillment for each personality type. Not sure what your personality type is? Take our new personality questionnaire here. Or you can take the official MBTI® here. This article contains affiliate links to books on Amazon. If you purchase one…
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So you’ve taken a Myers-Briggs® type indicator, and you see an “S” in your type code. What now? What does that “S” even mean? Perhaps you log onto forums or message boards and read a variety of random opinions on that little “S.” Now you’re wondering, “Is this type right for me? Do I really…
Everyone has a set of things that they’re patient about, and a set of things that make them impatient. What are yours? Not sure what your personality type is? Take our new personality questionnaire here. Or you can take the official MBTI® here. The ENFP You are patient when it comes to exploring options, brainstorming, and examining alternatives….
Are you an ESTJ or an INTJ? While these types may seem vastly different at first, they actually mistype as each other very frequently. This is especially true when it comes to ESTJs mistyping as INTJs. This quick and easy guide will help you to understand which type best fits you. But before you begin…
When my 14-year-old pleaded with me to watch “Haikyuu!!” with her I have to admit I was not expecting much. Watching a bunch of anime high school boys play volleyball sounded painfully dull. I don’t like sports movies (much to my ESTP husband’s chagrin) and I’m 36-years-old. What could I possibly find to enjoy in…
It’s no secret that personality quizzes are fun. Whether you’re taking a Buzzfeed “Which Marvel Character Are You?” test or buckling down for a psychological Jungian-style test, we all want to know who we are. Sharpening our sense of identity can help us to navigate the world with a clearer sense of purpose. Or it…
Do you want to figure out what unique perspectives and gifts you bring to the table based on your personality type? Today we’re going to explore the “Hero” functions of each type through visuals and statements. These visuals can help you get a clearer understanding of your own and others’ types. In the future I’ll…
As an MBTI® practitioner, it often feels like I live, eat, and breathe typology. Between coaching people about their type, writing about type, and making videos about type, a lot of my time involves dealing with people and their perceptions of type. But there are times when I feel like throwing in the towel and…
Carl Jung once said, “There is no such thing as a pure introvert or extrovert. Such a person would be in the lunatic asylum.” As the founder of psychological type, the fact that he said this is very significant. And it’s true, as well. Everyone has an introverted side, and everyone has an extroverted side….
Last week while I was working I was listening to an Oldies playlist that always tends to put me in a good mood. The song You Don’t Own Me came on, and as I was enjoying it, I suddenly realized that the song would be an ideal anthem for the EFP or IFP personality types!…
Want to deep-dive into the source of some of your worst weaknesses? Today we’re going to explore the “Demon” function of each personality type in the Myers-Briggs® system. The Demon is the last function in your cognitive function stack and a background player in many of your biggest mistakes. However, on the flip-side, the demon…
“Although he is not really evil, the Trickster does the most atrocious things from sheer unconsciousness and unrelatedness.” – Carl Jung Have you ever wondered why certain people bother you more than others? Perhaps you have an organized, no-nonsense friend who naturally takes to leadership. Other friends of yours admire this person, but for some…
Today we’re continuing our deep-dive series into each of the 16 Myers-Briggs® personality types. If you’re a newbie to type, this may be a little intense for you. If you’re looking for something that can explain the basics of Myers-Briggs typology, you can get a beginner’s look in our article, A Brief Guide to the…
Do you really want to dig deep into your personality type and how it works? If you’re tired of worn-out, lite-quality data then you’re in the right place. We’re learning about each of the 16 Myers-Briggs® personality types in-depth by breaking down their cognitive function stacks and seeing 8 unique ways that they experience the…
Is there a certain part of your life that feels nearly impossible to master? Do you feel like the same experiences trip you up again and again? Your Myers-Briggs® personality type might have something to do with that! Each of us is wired to perform well in certain areas but at the expense of other…
Do you ever find yourself thinking that someone is being super rude, but then realize no one else really seems all that bothered? If so, perhaps you’ve discovered something that your personality type considers rude but that other types tend to overlook, or at least judge less harshly. Of course, there are some behaviors that…
Last week we explored how each personality type experiences their dominant function. Today we’re going to explore the auxiliary function. The auxiliary function acts as a support to your dominant function. You can think of the dominant as the “commander in chief” of your personality and the auxiliary as the “second in command.” Your auxiliary…
Do you ever wonder why you see the world in such a vastly different way from other personality types? A lot of this has to do with your cognitive functions. Each of us live and breathe and absorb the details of life in completely different ways. One cognitive function has the highest priority in your…
The ENFP You easily spot patterns and connections that other people fail to notice. When you look around you, there’s a sense that everything is connected and part of a bigger picture. What does the tree have in common with the car on the side of the road? How is a fork like a piano?…
You know that thing you’re really good at but you’re also pretty sure is kinda strange? Like how my brother can memorize random facts and pull them out at exactly the right moment to make himself look like an eccentric genius? Or how one of my friends from church can make you feel like you…
Do you ever feel like the people around you keep talking down to you rather than respecting your perspective? Sometimes people are condescending intentionally. Other times, people get condescending without even realizing they are doing so. This is especially true when it comes to contrasting personality types. Understanding how we might be inadvertently condescending to…
I love using Myers-Briggs® to talk about fictional characters, but I’ve never used it to type mythological figures before and I was excited when Susan suggested this topic to me. Greek mythology is a fairly recent interest of mine sparked in part by Lore Olympus, part by my obsession with the Hadestown musical, and part…
Ever wished you could spend all that time when you’re driving to work doing something useful? Or at least a bit more entertaining? That’s one of the reasons I started listening to podcasts. Driving often takes up huge chunks of our days and since it’s vitally important that we keep our eyes on the road…
Many of us dream of becoming superheroes. Questions like, “If you could pick any superpower what would it be?” or “Which superhero would you be in real life?” can entertain us for hours. While we might not be getting superpowers any time soon, we all have things in common with superpowered characters. There are characters…
Would you like to discover more about your personality type in a visual way? I tend to learn best through reading, but some people learn best through audio or visual means. That’s why today I want to shine the light on some YouTube typology experts who make Myers-Briggs® engaging, fun, or even comical. Let’s get…
The ENFP Homeschooling Parent This parent is driven by inspiration and enthusiasm. She believes that children are driven by the heart, and without touching the heart, any lesson would be pointless. A natural rule-breaker, the ENFP homeschooler will care less about perfect penmanship and more about creativity and imagination. She’ll look for areas of unique…
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When it comes to typology, it’s always nice to focus on our strengths rather than the weaknesses. After all, it’s a lot more impressive to share an article of ourselves that pinpoints our unique abilities than one that shows our embarrassing failures and flaws. This article will likely get shared a lot less than an…
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I’ve been a fan of musical theater even longer than I’ve been into personality types. For some reason, though, I hadn’t thought about putting the two interests together until Susan asked me to write “Here’s the Broadway Song You’d Be, Based On Your Myers-Briggs® Personality Type.” Today’s follow-up post is about specific characters from Broadway…
Over the last few months, I’ve become fascinated by the world of anime. My 14-year-old daughter can be thanked for this. Initially I thought I’d have zero interest in it. After all, I’m not a big fan of “cartoons.” But as I sat by my daughter through hours of “My Hero Academia” and then “Demon…
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In our country right now there is an abundance of pain, anger, frustration, sickness, and desperation. Corruption, racism, and a growing illness are all causing chaotic amounts of stress for people worldwide. Today I want to look at some of the ways that each of the Myers-Briggs® personality types reaches out to others and lends…
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When Susan reached out and asked me to write a guest post about the Myers-Briggs® Types of Star Wars characters, I immediately pulled up my soundtrack playlist and started writing. After all, I’ve been a Star Wars fan for as long as I can remember and I have a whole blog devoted to typing Star…
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Right now the world is in a stage of panic and anxiety. Everyone is having a really rough time trying to stay calm. If you’re stuck in your home with a significant other or family member that you dearly love, but is starting to lose their cool in a way that confuses you, here are…
I love the show Bojack Horseman, a weird off-the-wall animated sitcom about a self-loathing, alcoholic anthropomorphic horse who is also a has-been Hollywood star. It’s not every day that you find yourself relating so viscerally to someone who looks like nothing like you — mostly, because he’s, well, a horse. Many skeptics question this show’s…
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Each of us has blind spots and areas in our lives that we tend to forget to take care of. Whether it’s self-care, rest, asking for help, or believing in our capabilities! This article will shed some light on something that each type needs to remember to succeed more fully in the life they have…
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