3 Weird and Wonderful Secrets About the INTJ

Weird: “Of Strange or extraordinary character: Odd, Fantastic”
– Merriam-Webster Dictionary

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Weirdness is a trait that is simultaneously repressed and admired by people all over the world. What was once considered “weird” is now considered trendy in many cases. What was once considered “cool” is now considered old-fashioned or boring. When it comes to personality type, there have been certain types that have been revered or “weird” depending on the culture and era.

But what makes INTJs extraordinary, strange, odd, or fantastic? What unique, yet possibly “weird” traits make them stand out? Let’s take a look!

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INTJs Are Strongly Rational Yet Completely Mysterious

INTJs strongly value objective logic. When it comes to decisions, they trust facts, data, and truth. That said, their dominant function isn’t about facts and concrete data. Introverted Intuition is extremely mysterious in its workings and often lies outside of concrete, tangible reality – at least to most observers. INTJs get epiphanies or “hunches” that seem to appear out of the blue, and initially, even they can’t pin down why they believe in them with such certainty.

Building Blocks of Personality Type says of Introverted Intuition, that it “May experience insights that are not connected to the tangible world in any way that makes sense to anyone else.” It is only with time and reflection that the “dots are connected” and INTJs realize how they got their startling visions and insights. The premonitions and impressions they receive can appear magical or confusing to onlookers. The accuracy of their insight is uncanny and even scary to some people.

For the INTJ who values empirical data and proof to such a strong degree, moving forward on an epiphany or insight seems counter to their pragmatic outward persona. It’s a paradox that makes them all the more mysterious and intriguing!

INTJs May Seem Cold on the Outside, But They Develop Astounding Empathy

There are a lot of “cold, robotic” stereotypes about INTJs in the type community, especially online. But what most people ignore is that INTJs actually have tertiary Introverted Feeling (Fi). While as children this function may not develop or show itself very often, as INTJs reach their 20’s and beyond they start to develop a stronger sense of individuality, a personal moral code, and empathy for others.

As introverted intuitives, INTJs are also skilled at seeing things from multiple perspectives and vantage points. According to Jungian analysts Gary and Margaret Hartzler, “The Seer (INJ) often sees ideas simultaneously from several perspectives. For example, if several people are involved in a discussion, the Seer in us is able to see the various points of view, virtually simultaneously.”

INTJs are actually quite adept at seeing things from the perspectives of individuals far different from themselves and, as a result, are much more empathetic than stereotypes would imply. INTJs may keep a lot of their feelings inside (after all, they value introverted feeling) but this doesn’t mean they don’t care. As INTJs get older and more mature you will see a strong sense of moral direction or individualistic values that influence their decisions. You may find them strongly empathetic and concerned with protecting underdogs or persecuted people or animals. Cold robots? Not if you read up on your cognitive functions!

INTJs Think in Symbols and Images

One of the defining traits of Introverted Intuition is a tendency to think in terms of symbolic imagery. According to typologist AJ Drenth, “They (INJs) think by way of images rather than words. Their intuitions often manifest in the form of symbols, images, dreams, or patterns. This is consistent with Jung’s characterization of the Ni type as a dreamer, artist, or seer.” This is often why INTJs will express themselves using a lot of metaphor and simile rather than concrete language. They blend rational, fact-based thinking with vivid imagery to make a powerful impression in their speech and writing.

“Anything described that is devoid of associated images or symbolism seems barren and without  life. By recognizing the power of symbolism, the Seer is able to significantly restructure reality simply by choosing another perspective on the data.”
– Margaret and Gary Hartzler, Functions of Type: Activities for Developing the Eight Jungian Functions

 

“Why Don’t I Relate To This?”

The majority of people who get an INTJ result in an online test are actually ISTJs, ESTJs, or ISTPs. For this reason, when we really get into the deep theory of type and introverted intuition, a lot of people are scratching their heads and thinking “either this information is wrong or I’m not typed correctly.” So you have to ask yourself:

“When I take in information am I looking more at what’s tangible, concrete, verifiable and tried-and-true?”

“When I look at the world around me do I get strong impressions that relate to my past experience, memories, and facts I’ve accumulated in my life?”

This would mean you probably identify more with Si than Ni, and would, therefore, be an STJ.

OR, when you look at the world around you do you think of everything’s symbolic significance, deeper meaning, and relationship to the rest of the universe? Do you find yourself considering abstract ideas and possibilities that are unrelated to the object you’ve seen, yet may have been triggered in some way by that object? If so, then you have more of a leaning towards intuition and INTJ is more likely your accurate result.

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  1. Well I have pretty much given up on on any anyone understanding me. I am always misunderstood. I’m tired of trying to explain myself in terms other people can understand. At 66 I don’t think I care anymore I’m just going to be my own best friend. So I spent a year studying type and getting up the courage to tell my husband and my sister I was either infj or int.j when I did, they just gave me a Blank Stare and the conversation changed. so I’m done with that. I’m just going to be my own best friend. people are so strange .why can’t they see what I see and why is it so hard to believe I’m right.

    1. Hi Karen,

      I’m right there with you on this. I don’t even bother to explain myself to my family anymore. I get the blank stare and conversation terminating vibe. I try to explain work-related issues and ask for some support and advice. “You just need to go to work and make money.” WTF I might as well be talking to a taxidermied elk head. Anyway you are not alone because there are other INTJs out there that understand.

  2. I am frustrated. Thingswould be easier if folk would just honor my input. But they don’t. Why can’t they see what I see? I know things will go awray if they proceed on course but they don’t listen and then I watch them fail. Is there a way I should be explaining what I precieve better so they will listen?

    1. Karen, it took me about a minute to read your posts and you moan so much that I have already given up listening to you. I don’t blame your husband or sister at all

  3. >INTJs strongly value objective logic. When it comes to decisions, they trust facts, data, and truth.

    No. “But Herr Professor, the facts are different,” to which Hegel, unruffled, replied, “So much the worse for the facts.”

    INTJs use intuition, which is the recognition of the subjects quintessence. Logic is secondary, and if it disputes intuitions finding, is quite suspect.

  4. I once told a new nurse I was working with, “You’re a good nurse. I’m glad you are here.” She caught me off guard and said, “why?” (Hmm, I need to think about her in more depth don’t I) I really struggled to work backwards to tell her why I thought this. I stuttered and stammered and to this day, I hope I did not make her feel it was a superficial compliment. I was using my Ni. Now I have a contingency plan (ha!), before I compliment someone, I have a few reasons in the bag in case they ask. I’m terribly empathetic, thus the nursing career. My personal mission is to reduce suffering in the world. Not to make the world a better place, although this inevitably follows, but because suffering is the problem and it’s about getting to the core of the matter, solving the problems that cause suffering. See the Gates Foundation who helped me feel a lot better about not having the personal mission of making the world a better place. The Gates are right. One last thing, some time ago, I decided it was stupid to base whether or not I liked someone based on whether or not they like me. Their merit stands on it’s own. Now, if they’re mean about disliking me, that impairs their merit doesn’t it, because mean people truly do suck.

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