As an INFJ man, you’ve probably noticed that you’re the guy everyone tells things to. Their relationship problems. Their family history. The thing they haven’t admitted to anyone else, which apparently needs to come out while you’re both standing beside the microwave. You listen, ask questions, and try to understand what’s underneath the words. But…
As a millennial, I grew up with the Harry Potter series and its beloved characters. I transitioned from reading of Harry, Ron, and Hermione’s adventures in the comfort of my childhood bedroom to reading the stories to my own children as they grew. I always found the wizarding world inspirational; selflessness, friendship, courage, and determination…
When people say they need to rest, we tend to picture the same small collection of activities: sleeping late, lying on the couch, taking a bath, perhaps watching six episodes of something while insisting it is only playing in the background. Sometimes that works. Sometimes you emerge from the couch feeling worse, with a stiff…
INFJs characters tend to get one of three jobs: mysterious counselor, emotionally burdened visionary, or unsettling person who knows something terrible is coming but can’t explain it without sounding unhinged. Sometimes they’re all three. This list includes heroic INFJs, damaged INFJs, villainous INFJs, and a few characters people will probably fight me about in the…
There are plenty of practical things that can make an INFJ feel safer. Money in the bank helps. A stable home helps. Knowing that the people you love are okay certainly helps. But there is another kind of safety that matters to INFJs, and it’s harder to put on a spreadsheet. It’s the feeling that…
