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12 Songs That INFPs Will Relate To

After writing a post about songs that INFJs relate to, I decided to start talking to some other personality types about their most relatable songs. I joined an INFP group and asked for their input, and I also went through Quara threads where INFPs listed songs they think embody what it’s like to be an INFP.

There were far too many song recommendations to talk about in this post, so I’ve compiled the songs on a Spotify playlist so you can listen to them all. One thing I noticed that set INFP song recommendations apart from what I heard from INFJs is that many said they enjoy instrumental songs. I didn’t include any on this post, but I did want to mention that and they are included on the playlist. Enjoy!

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12 Songs That INFPs Will Relate To

1. “3 Libras” by A Perfect Circle

Two INFPs recommended this song. According to the artists, this song is about the people who are rare, precious, empathic, and willing to be vulnerable in order to connect. It’s also about the “cold and oblivious” people who disappoint others by not understanding or caring.

2. “Alive” by Sia

Sia’s music received more than one recommendation, but “Alive” was the only song mentioned specifically. It’s a beautiful song that talks about finding solace inside your own mind and surviving against all odds.

3. “Creep” by Radiohead

This song comes recommended by three INFPs. On the surface, it might seem like a creepy, stalker-ish song. But when you listen more deeply it is (in the artists’ words) a song about “recognizing what you are.” The singer struggles with asserting themselves, then thinks about how that makes them seem weird even though they had no ill intentions.

4. “Dreams” by Fleetwood Mac

INFPs care deeply about staying true to their authentic selves, and they care about others doing the same. Even if that means splitting up a relationship, it is right to live in a way that makes you feel free and genuine. Because of this, many find solidarity with this song.

5. “Dosed” by Red Hot Chili Peppers

Several INFPs said they liked this song, and one said it was their favorite from Red Hot Chili Peppers. It’s about heartbreak after the loss of a deep relationship and finding peace even though the past hurts.

6. “Exist for Love” by AURORA

One INFP recommended this song specifically, and two more said they loved the artist. This is a beautiful love song, and it mirrors the way INFP types say “I love you.” It’s a deep, romantic, “soulmate” love that honors the other person and promises to have their back.

7. “Help I’m Alive” by Metric

It’s not easy to have a soft, tender heart in this world and INFPs know that as well (or perhaps better) than anyone. NPR described “Help I’m Alive” as an “anxious yet optimistic” song, and it captures the feeling of learning to exist in a society that doesn’t always fit your personality or preferences. Other recommended songs from Metric include “Dreams So Real” and “Empty.”

8.“Leif Erikson” by Interpol

I hadn’t listened to any Interpol music until writing this post. INFPs recommended, “Evil,” “Lights,” and “Untitled” along with the one I’ve included on this list. This one captured my attention first because of the reference to Norse explorer Leif Erikson, then for the interesting way it talks about two people exploring and discovering themselves and each other.

9. “my future” by Billie Eilish

This song was recommended by two INFPs. One INFP also recommended “Everything I Wanted” by the same artist. “my future” is about embracing a hopeful future and moving into a happier place, choosing to care for yourself because you’re someone who matters. INFPs enjoy anticipating and dreaming about their futures and feel a strong connection to this song.

10. “On The Turning Away” by Pink Floyd

Pink Floyd received several recommendations, even earning the distinction of favorite artist for some INFPs. I chose this song for my post because INFPs care so much about fighting for those who are downtrodden and vulnerable. They’re not going to turn away from such things, and they encourage others to care as well. Other Pink Floyd songs that INFPs recommended include “Comfortably Numb,” “Welcome to the Machine,” and “Wish You Were Here.”

11. “Saturn” by Sleeping at Last

This touching song is about losing someone you love who shaped who you are today and taught truths that will shine on even after they’re gone. The artist has said that it is “perhaps written from Galileo’s children perspective” and that his goal in writing the song was to make it beautiful.

12. “True Colors” by Cyndi Lauper

INFPs are deeply in-touch with their own authentic feelings. This familiarity with their own souls often gives them unique insight into other people as well. They also have the ability to help people find peace with themselves and show their true colors to the world.

Your Turn

Did any of your favorite songs make this list? Which other songs would you recommend? Share them with us in the comments!

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  1. Imaginary by Evanescence is one song I think represents INFPs. Also, Enchanted by Taylor Swift, Something Just Like This by the Chainsmokers, and Unwritten by Natasha Bedingfield.

    1. Yes, I agree! I’ve always found Imaginary really easy to identify with. How about Hello by them on the same album (Fallen), too?

  2. You would think no one over 40 was an INFP (sigh) … anyway, my favorite “INFP” song is Solsbury Hill by Peter Gabriel. It’s about him deciding to leave Genesis to become a solo artist, and how he struggles with being true to himself vs. his obligations. As classic an INFP dilemma as it gets.

  3. Such a fun list, thank you!! I’m an INFP and am really enjoying these song articles! I hope you’ll do one for ENFPs soon! I have a strong ENFP underbelly and highly recommend including “Best Day of My Life” by the American Authors in that one! A friend of mine once told me that the song reminded her of me! It’s all about finding all of the joy and endless possibilities in life and is something I believe most ENFPs will identify with!! ^_^

  4. John Denver songs: full of hopes, dreams, and yes, sorrows.
    Les Miz: “Bring Him Home”
    Josh Groban songs: many– very like John Denver’s songs. “Let Me Fall” comes to mind.

  5. Pretty much anything by James Blunt, Coldplay and Ed Sheeran. Also Hauser’s awesome cello playing touches me deeply. I also have Gypsy by Fleetwood Mac on repeat a lot. It speaks to me about being true to myself and wild and free.

  6. “WAYO” by Bang yedam
    This song which actually identify my style as i am an INFP
    the song is not English but when you see its lyrics its actually such a great song and the songwritter who is also its singer is an INFP himself so thats why this song is really great and i recomened it

  7. I think that Doom Gothic Metal is so INFP, here are my favourites:

    Hallatar: My Mistake
    Draconian: Pale Tortured Blue

  8. “Lazy Eye” by Silversun Pickups
    Tells the story of someone who can’t focus on what’s expected/required of them, and instead wants to deviate from that pressure to follow their own ideals (their “lazy eye”). Yet they know their personal ideals run contrary to what’s expected of them, and struggle to accept this (“aim free but so untrue”)
    Also Silversun Pickups is just an incredible band in general, with a really unique sound. I recommend the albums “Pikul” and “Carnavas” for their best stuff.

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