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10 Signs of an Unhealthy INTJ

INTJs are well-regarded in the typology community for their vision, insight, and strategic prowess. Many times the word INTJ feels synonymous with the words “intelligent”, “prodigious”, and “intellectual”. But what happens when you meet an INTJ who doesn’t seem to possess many of the qualities that INTJs are praised for? Or what happens when you’re dealing with an unhealthy INTJ? Check out these signs that you’re dealing with a poorly developed or immature INTJ.

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10 Signs of an Unhealthy INTJ

Their Way is the Only Right Way

Unhealthy INTJs get tunnel vision about their ideas and visions. It is difficult for them to think outside of their own predictions and they can become closed-minded to other views and perspectives.

The technical reasons for this:

Over-inflation of the INTJ’s dominant function, Introverted Intuition, can result in stubbornness and single-minded fixation on one vision or idea. Stubbornness isn’t always bad, but unhealthy INTJs are so singularly-focused that they block out anything that would contradict them. Sometimes this is the result of Opposing Role Extraverted Intuition and sometimes it’s a lack of development of the auxiliary function.

They Don’t Care How You Feel

This is where the INTJ stereotypes can show up in real life. Healthy INTJs may not always be aware of how people feel, but they still take vital interpersonal needs into consideration. Unhealthy INTJs legitimately don’t care how other people feel. They’re so fixated on their own goals and ideas that they dislike making room for anyone else’s emotional needs.

The technical reasons for this:

Without adequate development of Feeling, INTJs can become lopsided in their development. Introverted Intuition is fixated on finding underlying meanings and predictions. The INTJ’s auxiliary function, Extraverted Thinking, is focused on organizing and structuring the world for efficiency and effectiveness. If INTJs refuse to give weight to the Feeling side of their personality, they develop the false belief that other people’s feelings are insignificant to the larger picture.

Their Visions and Ideas Lack Real-World Data

When INTJs push their need for introversion to an extreme, they can become out of touch with the world around them. They still develop visions and ideas, but those ideas lack weight because they’re not balanced with information and facts from reality.

The technical reasons for this:

The inferior function of the INTJ, Extraverted Sensation (Se), gathers real-world data in the present moment. The more INTJs experience the real world through a variety of projects, activities, and interactions, the more data Sensation can feed to Intuition. It’s vital for INTJs to get out in the world on a regular basis, to read up on facts, and to get input from experiences so that their Intuitions are more accurate and realistic. Of course, they still need to make sure they’re balancing this with adequate alone time.

They Regularly Act Impulsively and Recklessly

INTJs who are experiencing chronic, extreme stress will have bouts of unexpected impulsivity and recklessness. They may habitually binge-eat, spend devastating amounts of money, or give into road-rage. They may also have less negative ways of dealing with stress like over-cleaning, blasting loud music, or exercising until they’re exhausted.

The technical reasons for this:

When INTJs are severely stressed, they fall into the grip of their inferior function, Extraverted Sensation (Se). When this happens, they become uncharacteristically impulsive and focused on the sensory world around them. They are more likely to seem like unhealthy ESFPs than INTJs during times like this. You can find out more about this in 12 Stress-Busting Techniques for INTJs.

They Give You the Silent Treatment

INTJs tend to be internal processors when it comes to their feelings. They don’t typically feel the need to rehash how they feel to other people. While this isn’t always a bad thing, it can turn into a negative thing in relationships or friendships. When INTJs get offended or irritated by someone, they may just close that person off rather than trying to work out problems and search for misunderstandings.

The technical reason for this:

INTJs are introverts, so they’re more likely to think before they process out-loud. They also have tertiary Introverted Feeling. Introverted Feeling is an internal way of mapping out emotions and understanding them. When INTJs feel something deeply, they’re likely to sort out their emotions on their own rather than seeking advice or input from others. This can leave their partner, friend, or family member feeling lost when it comes to where the INTJ is at emotionally. Healthy INTJs know that emotional expression and input is important, so they balance their internal processing with sharing and healthy vulnerability. Unhealthy INTJs tend to just cut people off or go silent, potentially missing out on reconciliation or deeper understanding.

They Disregard Their Health and Physical Well-Being

INTJs can be so fixated on ideas and goals that they lose touch with the physical world around them. When this happens, they tend to de-prioritize sleep, healthy eating, or exercise. They can become out of touch with their bodily needs, forgetting to hydrate, rest, or eat the right amount of meals in a day.

The technical reasons for this:

INTJs are intuitive-dominant personality types. The world of concepts and predictions is what drives them and gets them excited. The physical sensory world is much less intriguing to them, so they are at risk of ignoring it or de-valuing it. Where an ISTJ would instantly notice the sensation of thirst or fatigue, the INTJ can be blind to these things and end up in a perpetual state of discomfort, fatigue, or dehydration.

They Force Logic to Fit Their Ideas

Healthy INTJs are more interested in knowing the truth than being right. Unhealthy INTJs will bend the facts and the logic to fit their vision or idea. These INTJs don’t seem like the stereotypical “masterminds” of the MBTI community. Their arguments are filled with logical loopholes and they’re unwilling to entertain ideas or facts that would contradict their perspectives.

The technical reasons for this:

When INTJs get to an unhealthy state, their dominant function, Introverted Intuition, takes over and gets over-inflated. Intuition is less concerned with logic and facts than it is with ideas and visions and predictions. When Intuition is over-inflated, INTJs will bend their thinking side to support their intuitive side. Thinking becomes less independent and less objective and more warped and enslaved to the dominant intuitive process.

They Are Cut Off From Their Own Emotions

When INTJs don’t give sufficient weight to their feeling side, they become hard on themselves and disconnect their link to the emotional world. They become overly-fixated on productivity and accomplishment at the expense of their individual emotional needs and desires. When their emotions flare up, they see them as untrustworthy and rapidly push them aside. This continued tendency propels them down a path that is ultimately unsatisfying for them because it doesn’t coincide with their deeper cravings and emotional needs. It can also make them tactless, brusque, and lacking in empathy for others.

They Form Unfair Judgments of Emotionally Expressive People

Unhealthy INTJs tend to find emotionally demonstrative, exuberant people annoying. They often struggle to trust them and wonder if they have ulterior motives. They may enjoy knocking these types down a peg or condescending to them instead of approaching them with an open mind.

The technical reasons for this:

INTJs have trickster Extraverted Feeling. Because of this, they tend to see strong expressions of emotion or people who promote group values to be suspect. Healthy INTJs realize that there are strengths in differences, and approach Extraverted Feeling types (EFJs) with an open mind. Unhealthy INTJs project trickster Feeling onto FJ types and may put them down, belittle them, or simply refuse to communicate amicably with them.

They Have a Superiority Complex

Unhealthy INTJs get caught up in their own visions, ideas, and intellectual theories. They so highly value Intuition and Thinking that they de-value or dismiss input from Sensing, Feeling, or Perceiving types. They may refuse to entertain ideas by people with S-F-or P preferences, seeing them as unreliable and of little use in comparison to themselves.

The technical reasons for this:

Every personality type, when unhealthy, tends to view people with opposite preferences in a negative light. Instead of seeing the positives of their differences, they only project their own weaknesses in these areas onto others. Since INTJs aren’t naturally skilled in Sensing-areas (without practice), they see Sensing types as unskilled. Since unhealthy INTJs don’t trust their own Feeling side, they view Feeling types as untrustworthy. This isn’t an exclusive tendency of INTJs – every type can do this. ESFPs may feel superior to INTJs, ESTJs may feel superior to INFPs, and so on.

Don’t Stop There!

INTJs have many tremendous strengths and abilities. Don’t get so fixated on the tendencies of unhealthy INTJs that you fail to see their incredible gifts. Take a look at these links to find out more about INTJs:

24 Signs That You’re an INTJ, the Strategist Personality Type

The Childhood Struggles of INTJs

The Underrated Kindness of the INTJ Personality Type

10 Intuition Hacks for INTJs and INFJs

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