Here is a thing I did this morning: I spent twenty minutes trying on shirts in a hotel bathroom mirror, trying to find the one that would make me look like a person who deserves to eat breakfast. I hadn’t eaten in twenty-four hours. My hands were shaking as I held my plate in the…
If you’re a Perceiver you probably relate to the feeling that you wake up every day in a world that wants you to be a spreadsheet. Western culture is essentially a giant machine built by and for people with an ESTJ mindset. They like rules, tradition, and they absolutely adore a five-year plan. You, on…
For INFPs, choosing a job isn’t just about the paycheck, it’s about landing somewhere that feels right at a core level. It’s often a heart-and-mind inner debate, and sometimes that means turning down the “practical” option because it feels hollow, much to the confusion of friends and family. As an MBTI® practitioner I’ve worked with…
Want to be inspired by an ENFP on the big screen? Fictional ENFPs can seem larger-than-life with their unique ability to inspire, explore, and test the boundaries. Simply watching a movie with an ENFP in it can make you see the world in a different way – things that were once gray are now shining…
“You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce.” – Tony Gaskins As an MBTI® practitioner and coach I’ve worked with countless people who lead with their hearts, who want to make the world a better place, and who often find themselves drained, resentful, and wondering…
