Enneagram Nine

Most of us know when we are wasting time in the obvious ways. We notice when we have watched six episodes of something we don’t even like or spent forty minutes reading an argument between strangers on Facebook. We may continue, lost in a trance of sorts, but at least we know what is happening….

As an Enneagram coach, people ask me which Enneagram type is most likely to be a narcissist a lot. There’s this assumption floating around online that narcissism belongs primarily to one or two types. Usually Threes. Sometimes Eights. Occasionally people nominate Twos after surviving what I can only describe as “aggressive caregiving with emotional strings…