Enneagram Threes are known for their confidence and charisma. Talented, ambitious, and polished, they know how to chase after their dreams without turning back. Whether they’re captaining a volleyball team, running a corporation, or trying to become the greatest pilot in the world, they throw themselves into life with an intensity that’s hard to ignore….
Most descriptions of Nines are fairly one-dimensional. They’re described as easy-going, low-key types who’d probably rather fight a bear than bring up a disagreement with their spouse. And yes, that can be true for some, but it’s also overly-simplistic. In my experience, Nines have a dark side and a light side. Their lives aren’t just…
Love is weird. You can tell someone, “I love you” every single day and still somehow miss the exact place where they’re starving for reassurance. One person feels loved when you listen carefully and remember tiny details about their life. Another feels loved when you respect their independence. Someone else feels loved when you say,…
As an Enneagram coach, people ask me which Enneagram type is most likely to be a narcissist a lot. There’s this assumption floating around online that narcissism belongs primarily to one or two types. Usually Threes. Sometimes Eights. Occasionally people nominate Twos after surviving what I can only describe as “aggressive caregiving with emotional strings…
There’s something fascinating about watching BTS through the lens of the Enneagram because, unlike MBTI®, the Enneagram isn’t really about how someone thinks. It’s about why they do what they do. It tracks motivation, fear, desire, and coping mechanisms. It also focuses on the emotional survival strategies people build over time without even realizing it….
