Anaïs Nin once said, “Anxiety is love’s greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you.” I used to take this quote to heart in the way I lived my life. Throughout my childhood my seemingly incessant fears put others on edge. I didn’t take elevators. They…
ESFJs are built for people the way some homes are built for hosting: warm lighting, extra chairs, snacks you didn’t know you needed, and an uncanny ability to sense when someone’s “I’m fine” is actually “I’m not fine but I’m trying to be polite about it.” One of my ESFJ friends used to tell me…
ESFPs move through the world with this electric, instinctive awareness that most people only taste on their best days. One of my closest friends is an ESFP and even though she’s in her 40s like me, she has held on to the enthusiasm, energy, and adventurousness that most people let slide in their 30s. I…
If you’re an ESFJ you probably recognize this paradox: You’re warm, conscientious, supportive, and deeply want to do things the right way.You’re the friend that remembers birthdays, special events, and the way someone feels about…almost everything. And yet, beneath that helpful exterior, there’s often a sharp inner voice that can be…a bit of a jerk….
IT: Welcome to Derry is a story about fear, manipulation, and control. We’re not just talking monsters in sewers. The show explores what fear does to memory, to morality, and to people who are forced to grow up inside a town that rewards cruelty and punishes vulnerability. Honestly, I tend to despise horror movies. I…
