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Have you ever looked at two Myers-Briggs® types that seem very similar and wondered how much of a difference there really is? Maybe you’ve taken several tests online and you’ve received both ENFJ and INFJ results, or maybe you’re just curious about how to tell the difference between the two types.

If you’re just looking at the names of these two types, you might think the only difference is that one is extroverted and the other’s introverted. That’s only partly true. To really get into what makes these types different, we need to look at how they use cognitive functions. If you’re not familiar with cognitive functions, you can check out my post “The Simplest Guide to Myers-Briggs® Functions Ever” and Susan’s post “The Cognitive Functions – What Are They?” for an overview of how that all works.

Each type has four cognitive functions that are their favorites. For INFJ and ENFJs, these four functions are exactly the same. The two types just use the functions in a different order of preference, and that can make quite a big difference.

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ENFJs and INFJs prioritize the world differently

The primary function of INFJs is an introverted one. These types see the inner world as the one that’s most “real” and find that spending time there is energizing. INFJs tend to approach life from a thoughtful, introspective place. Isabel Myers said that introverts “Cannot live life until they understand it.” Like other introverts, INFJs make sense of the outer world by first looking inside themselves.

For ENFJs, their primary function is extroverted. The outer world is what captures the bulk of their attention. They to approach life from an open, more experience-focused place. Isabel Myers said extroverts, “Cannot understand life until they have lived it.” They make sense of the inner world by first looking outside of themselves.

Just looking at introvert-extrovert differences isn’t enough to tell these two types apart. INFJs are often considered an “extroverted introvert” because many enjoy spending time with people. Similarly, ENFJs are often called “introverted extroverts” because they need and enjoy occasional solitude.

ENFJs and INFJs lead with very different functions

Introversion and Extroversion aren’t the only things going on with someone’s favorite function. For INFJs this function is also intuitive (Introverted Intuition). For ENFJs, their favorite function is a feeling one (Extroverted Feeling).

An INFJ will typically find that their Intuitive side is the one that feels most comfortable. Pattern-recognition, big-picture thinking, and seeing things from multiple perspectives come naturally to them. Most INFJs place a higher value on experiencing and understanding life than on controlling it. Even though there is a “J” in their personality type, Intuition is a Perceiving function (what we use to learn new information) and so INFJs might find that they identify a little more with perceiving traits than judging traits.

An ENFJ will typically find that their Feeling side is the one that is most comfortable. Reading other people, picking up on and meeting their needs, and interacting with them in ways that keep everyone happy come naturally to an ENFJ. They probably place a higher value on having things settled and decided than on experiencing life as it happens. Feeling is a Judging function (what we use to make decisions), and so ENFJs tend to identify well with judging traits and like having their outer world ordered and controlled.

The co-pilot is different for ENFJs and INFJs

INFJs and ENFJs both have the same two functions as the ones they use most comfortably. The only difference is which function is their preferred process and which one is used as the co-pilot process. We’ve already looked at their dominant functions, so now it’s time for the co-pilot.

INFJs support their Introverted Intuition with auxiliary Extroverted Feeling. They use this function most when making decisions and relating to other people. It helps them figure out how social groups work and make decisions that will meet everyone’s needs.

ENFJs support their Extroverted Feeling with Introverted Intuitive. This side of their personality helps them learn and process information. They use it to put patterns together and look at something from a new perspective.

ENFJs and INFJs behave differently when in a “loop”

At this point, you might be thinking it’s near impossible to tell INFJs and ENFJs apart. Since both use Introverted Intuition and Extroverted Feeling as their favorite functions, how on earth are we supposed to tell which one someone is using as their primary process and which one as their auxiliary? This is where looking at tertiary functions can help.

INFJs have Introverted Thinking as their tertiary. They may feel pretty comfortable using this function since it is introverted, like their favorite function of Introverted Intuition. When they by-pass their Extroverted Feeling and get into a “loop” between their two introverted functions, INFJs become more analytical, research-minded, and focused on trying to organize things logically. If they spend too much time in this loop an INFJ may lose touch with their more diplomatic, relational side. This can lead to withdrawing from people and becoming more critical and defensive.

ENFJs have Extroverted Sensing as their Tertiary. It’s extroverted, just like their favorite function of Extroverted Feeling. When ENFJs get into a “loop,” they become more interested in sensory experiences and may become easily distracted by details in the outer world. If they spend too much time in the loop, an ENFJ might become impulsive, overly self-indulgent, distracted from their long-term goals, and overly preoccupied with how others see them.

Stress affects ENFJs and INFJs very differently

The inferior function (the lowest on a four-function stack) typically shows up when we’re stressed. We can also use it when relaxing and it often shows up in our favorite hobbies. It can provide some excellent clues when we’re trying to figure out which type someone is.

An INFJ has Extroverted Sensing as their inferior function. Stress tends to make them obsessively focused on external data. They often overindulge in sensory pleasures like food, drinking, shopping, etc. Stressed INFJs can also develop a suspicious, hostile attitude toward the outer world. When they’re using this function in a healthy way, INFJs often find they enjoy activities that require sensory engagement like gardening, cooking, or yoga.

An ENFJ has Introverted Thinking as their inferior function. When stressed-out, they tend to become excessively critical of themselves and of others. They may start using convoluted logic to try and solve problems without involving other people, often feeling a compulsive need to take action. If they’re using this function in a healthy way, ENFJs might find that they really enjoy activities that require analytical reasoning like strategy games or working with computers.

In conclusion …

I hope this post has helped you make sense of the differences and similarities between ENFJ and INFJ types. Most people don’t fit every single description of their personality type 100%, but we do have a “best fit” type that does a good job of describing how we think. Here’s an infographic that can help you to further visualize the differences between these two personality types:

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About the Author:

Marissa Baker #MBTI Blogger

Marissa Baker is the author of The INFJ Handbook (available in the Amazon Kindle Store). You can find her online at LikeAnAnchor.com where she blogs about personal growth and development from a Christian perspective.

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Marissa Baker is the author of The INFJ Handbook (available in the Amazon Kindle Store). You can find her online at LikeAnAnchor.com where she blogs about personal growth and development from a Christian perspective.

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